Crossed Wires and Cold Shoulders

Crossed wires and cold shoulders - CEDR HR Solutions.

Bright Smiles Dentistry: Episode 7

Dana was halfway through her visual check when she noticed… the sterile packaging tray left open and drying out on the counter. Again.

It was the third time this week something had been left out, half-done, in the sterilization room. At first, she chalked it up to summer brain fog, but this morning felt different. The air in the office had a slight edge.

As she walked toward the front desk, Molly brushed past her, muttering something about how “if people would just label things correctly, we wouldn’t have to play scavenger hunt all day.”

Fifteen minutes later, Ben walked by holding a printout of the day’s schedule, shaking his head. “Love when I have to guess if a patient’s been checked in,” he said. He didn’t look up, but Dana noticed the remark landed squarely within Molly’s earshot.

Her stomach sank. This wasn’t just miscommunication. This was a conflict taking shape.

By lunchtime, Dana had heard from two more employees about the tension between Molly and Ben. Nina, ever the unofficial morale barometer, pulled Dana aside.

“Everyone’s noticing. They’re not shouting or anything, but the vibe is off. People are walking on eggshells.”

Dana nodded. “Thanks for letting me know.”

Turning to Policies and Documentation for a Clear Path Forward

Back in her office, she opened backstageHR and pulled up the Conflict Resolution Guide from CEDR HR Solutions. She began documenting what she’d observed on a notepad next to her desk. She made sure to stick to objective facts rather than assumptions, just as the guide recommended.

Over the past two weeks, there had been three things Dana took note of:

  • Monday, 9:40 a.m.—Ben missed a front-desk hand-off; the patient waited fifteen minutes.
  • Wednesday, 1:15 p.m.—Two impression trays came to sterilization without labels; Molly admitted re-printing them.
  • Thursday, 8:05 a.m.—Half-sealed instrument pouch (photo attached); Molly in charge that morning.

Since Dana had been working closely with CEDR all year, she knew her first step was to check the employee handbook for support. She turned to the practice’s Core Values, then reviewed The Ideal Team Member policy and The Doctor’s Rules for the Team.

Together, these three pillars defined expectations for communication, collaboration, and respect. They weren’t just filler. They provided a shared foundation to guide her upcoming conversations and allowed her to focus on behaviors, not personalities.

Still, Dana wanted to double-check her approach. She messaged the team at CEDR to review her plan and see if there was anything she’d overlooked. The advisor affirmed her strategy and offered a few additional tips, including a blog on conducting effective one-on-ones and a simple documentation form. Dana appreciated the validation, especially when the advisor noted, “Glad to see you’re focusing on objective facts. That’s exactly the right approach.”

Addressing Issues One-on-One

Dana printed the form and outlined her notes before meeting with each employee individually.

First up: Ben.

Ben slouched into the chair, arms crossed. Dana laid a copy of Wednesday’s schedule between them. “I want to walk through that missed hand-off,” she said. “Can you tell me what happened?”

Ben exhaled. “Phones were blowing up. Molly was supposed to watch the desk, but she disappeared. I’m juggling three things, and yeah, I messed up. Then she makes a scene about it.”

Dana let him vent. Years of management had taught her that employees often needed to empty the frustration bucket before they could solve anything.

“I get the pressure,” she said when he paused. “The SOP says whoever leaves the desk confirms a hand-off. Let’s recommit to that. I’ve printed the script—use it every time, even if you’re swamped. Fair?”

Ben nodded. Some of the tension drained from his shoulders.

“And about the comments in the hallway,” she added. “I’m not here to silence you, but keep in mind that making side remarks isn’t going to solve the problem. I’d really like you to address issues directly and not let them fester.”

“Deal,” he said, softer this time.

Creating Accountability and Opening the Door for Improvement

Next was Molly.

Molly entered looking more startled than defensive. Dana slid the photo of the open pouch across the desk.

“Walk me through this morning,” Dana said.

Molly’s cheeks pinked. “I was hurrying. We were short on trays because I’d just re-labeled yesterday’s impressions Ben forgot to tag.” She sighed. “I know those packs have to be sealed. I just—”

“Rushed,” Dana finished. “I understand the impulse, but skipping a safety step risks compliance and patient safety.” She tapped the handbook. “Our rules are clear.”

Molly’s eyes flicked to the floor. “I’ll slow down. And I’ll tell Ben before I fix his paperwork, not after.”

She documented each conversation using the CEDR-provided form on one-on-ones and stored it in the HR Vault. She told both Molly and Ben that she would start scheduling regular one-on-one meetings into each person’s schedule to help the feedback loop to continue.

Restoring Team Harmony Through Consistent Effort

Over the next week, Dana saw noticeable improvement.

Ben asked Molly for clarification on a chart instead of grumbling. Molly responded with a simple answer, no eye roll, no sigh. Midweek, Ben stuck his head into sterilization. “Hey, thanks for catching that insurance note yesterday,” he told Molly. “Saved me a call-back.”

Molly glanced up, surprised, then smiled. “Team effort.”

During follow-ups, both employees had thoughtful suggestions and acknowledged their role in the earlier tension. Ben even said, “I guess I assumed she didn’t respect me. But now I think we were just talking past each other.”

Dana left the meetings with a sense of relief. Conflict didn’t have to be catastrophic. It just needed clarity, patience, and a framework for course correction.

Later that day, Dr. Chang passed her in the hallway.

“Things seem calmer this week,” he said.

“They are,” Dana replied. “We had a little static between team members. I used the handbook, leaned on CEDR’s Conflict Resolution Guide, and worked it through. Everything’s documented, and we’re in a better place.”

He gave her a quick nod. “I’m glad you’re the one handling this stuff.”

Dana smiled as he walked away. Not every storm needed to be dramatic. Sometimes it just needed a reset, the right tools, and a little time.

 

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